Men and Women

In the process of writing a book on men and women relationship, particularly in a marriage. Many books have been written about marriage which is the most important relationship of all in a family setting. Although many experts argue children are just well brought up even in a broken family situation, given choice, a family intact which has good marital relationship is surely a preference over a family fallen apart.
So what is impasse that causes the eventual fallout? Perhaps, men and women need to pay a bit attention on style of communication. Here are two key sentiments we need to take into account in communication that could save the marriage in the end.
Men compete in the position of "Status" and Women in the position of "Connection". So you hear women sharing thoughts and feelings that earn them closeness among family and friends. That's the connection they are after. You also hear men awfully quiet at home but in workplaces or in public, they could speak hours. That's the status as an expert they are after. All these tendencies have a lot to do with brought up as men and women. Men believe in logic, information, facts, hierarchy while women into feeling, connection, and caring. These qualities chunked out different personalities. Without awareness, they could spell world of differences that resulted in bad relationship.