Thursday, September 22, 2005

Angels


God's Greatest Gift........

Once upon a time there was a child ready to be born. The child asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"God replied, "Among the many angels, I chose one for you. Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy."God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you every day. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."Again the child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak.""And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.""I've heard that on Earth there are bad men. Who will protect me?" God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life.""But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore""God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about me and will teach you the way to come back to me, even though I will always be next to you"At that moment there was much peace in heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name.""Her name is not important. You will simply call her MOM."I LOVE YOU MOM!

Salaams,SK
The Parenting Coach
The Relationship Coach
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Monday, September 12, 2005

Couple's Relationship


Hi Folks,

Recently I have a good friend, an outstanding mother who lost her 11 year's son in an accident. This event hit me because not only I know this lady and she also gave me plenty insights on the book I co-authored with several other coaches. The more I thought about it, the more I realize that how important to ride through rough time as a couple like the one happened to her and her husband.

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship to give each other support. Treasure what you have. Just a little story for you . . A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.The boy playfully went to the medicine bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child showed signs of poisoning the mother took him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.QUESTIONS:1. What were the four words ?2. What is the implication of this story ?Check with the answers only a
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ANSWER:- The husband just said "I Love You Darling" . . .- The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. He is indeed a genius in human relationships. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must understand her a lot and love her with all your heart."A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears & you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think."

Peace,SK

The Parenting Coach
The Relationship Coach
The Life Coach
http://www.serenitycoaching.net/